The Indian (Gender-Biased) Domestic Violence Act
According to the Indian Domestic Violence Act:
Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over a female partner.
Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound the female partner.
Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender - except to males. It can happen among couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic Violence affects people of all socio-economic backgrounds and education levels.
Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over a female partner.
Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound the female partner.
Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender - except to males. It can happen among couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic Violence affects people of all socio-economic backgrounds and education levels.
A woman may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if her male partner:
1.Calls her names, insults her or continually criticizes her,
2.Does not trust her and acts jealous or possessive,
3.Tries to isolate her from family or friends,
4.Monitors where she goes, who she calls and who she spends time with,
5.Does not want her to work,
6.Controls finances or refuses to share money,
7.Punishes her by withholding affection,
8.Expects her to ask permission,
9.Threatens to hurt her, her children, her family or her pets,
10.Humiliates her in any way.
A woman may be in a physically abusive relationship if her male partner has ever:
1.Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
2.Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked her.
3.Abandoned her in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
4.Scared her by driving recklessly.
5.Used a weapon to threaten or hurt her.
6.Forced her to leave her home.
7.Trapped her in her home or kept her from leaving.
8.Prevented her from calling the police or seeking medical attention.
9.Hurt her children.
10.Used physical force in sexual situations.
And also... a woman may be in a sexually abusive relationship if her partner:
1.Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
2.Accuses her of cheating or is often jealous of her outside relationships.
3.Wants her to dress in a sexual way.
4.Insults her in sexual ways or calls her sexual names.
5.Has ever forced or manipulated her into to having sex or performing sexual acts.
6.Held her down during sex.
7.Demanded sex when she were sick, tired or after beating her
8.Hurt her with weapons or objects during sex.
9.Involved other people in sexual activities with her
10.Ignored her feelings regarding sex.
By contrast, the Indian Domestic Violence Act specifically and clearly exculpates women from being prosecuted as the principal accused of Domestic Violence, excepting mothers, sisters, etc. of the accused man being prosecuted as abettors etc., and also specifically provides that the prescribed reliefs, such as maintenance, restraining orders, can be obtained ONLY by a woman and NEVER against a woman!
These rules which are set out in the Indian Domestic Violence are totally biased, and work, not to protect the institution of marriage and families, but to break marriages and families, giving ample opportunities for misuse, with no remedial measures provided for.
1.Calls her names, insults her or continually criticizes her,
2.Does not trust her and acts jealous or possessive,
3.Tries to isolate her from family or friends,
4.Monitors where she goes, who she calls and who she spends time with,
5.Does not want her to work,
6.Controls finances or refuses to share money,
7.Punishes her by withholding affection,
8.Expects her to ask permission,
9.Threatens to hurt her, her children, her family or her pets,
10.Humiliates her in any way.
A woman may be in a physically abusive relationship if her male partner has ever:
1.Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
2.Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked her.
3.Abandoned her in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
4.Scared her by driving recklessly.
5.Used a weapon to threaten or hurt her.
6.Forced her to leave her home.
7.Trapped her in her home or kept her from leaving.
8.Prevented her from calling the police or seeking medical attention.
9.Hurt her children.
10.Used physical force in sexual situations.
And also... a woman may be in a sexually abusive relationship if her partner:
1.Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
2.Accuses her of cheating or is often jealous of her outside relationships.
3.Wants her to dress in a sexual way.
4.Insults her in sexual ways or calls her sexual names.
5.Has ever forced or manipulated her into to having sex or performing sexual acts.
6.Held her down during sex.
7.Demanded sex when she were sick, tired or after beating her
8.Hurt her with weapons or objects during sex.
9.Involved other people in sexual activities with her
10.Ignored her feelings regarding sex.
By contrast, the Indian Domestic Violence Act specifically and clearly exculpates women from being prosecuted as the principal accused of Domestic Violence, excepting mothers, sisters, etc. of the accused man being prosecuted as abettors etc., and also specifically provides that the prescribed reliefs, such as maintenance, restraining orders, can be obtained ONLY by a woman and NEVER against a woman!
These rules which are set out in the Indian Domestic Violence are totally biased, and work, not to protect the institution of marriage and families, but to break marriages and families, giving ample opportunities for misuse, with no remedial measures provided for.
Together with the so-called "Section 498 (A)" of the Indian Penal Code and the associated amendment to the Evidence Act, these legislations have resulted in widespread misuse and social malaise. Additionally, under these legislations, the indirect sufferers will be women in majority of the cases, as daughters-in-law file case against husbands, mothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.
Homes and relationships cannot be run by State terrorism and force. Money can't make any one happy, otherwise, no one would have yearned for family and friends and children.
Women can not both obtain "relief" and also retain relationships by taking recourse to these legislations, a fact that should be fully understood by one and all. The relationship between men and women is by heart and voluntary, otherwise, it results in prostitution.What this Act really mean...
According to these legislations, the following is a list of women's rights:
Homes and relationships cannot be run by State terrorism and force. Money can't make any one happy, otherwise, no one would have yearned for family and friends and children.
Women can not both obtain "relief" and also retain relationships by taking recourse to these legislations, a fact that should be fully understood by one and all. The relationship between men and women is by heart and voluntary, otherwise, it results in prostitution.What this Act really mean...
According to these legislations, the following is a list of women's rights:
1. The right to control and subjugate the male partner
7. The right to commit adultery (and send the male partner to jail if he dares object)
8. The right to kill an unborn child regardless of the male's partner's wishes
9. The right to have all "rights" and no responsibilities
The Main reasons "Modern Women" file Police Complaints under these legislations:
1. She is possessive and suspicious
2. She is self-centered and feels the need to dominate the relationship and every aspect of decision-making
3. She is used to living beyond her means
4. She came from a middle class Family and married a man who was wealthier than herself
5. She has some political connections
6. She is a control freak
7. Her father is hen-pecked and her mother dominates her family
8. She listens to and acts in accordance with her parents' wishes at all times
9. She lacks discretion in dealing with her married life
10. She wants to alienate her husband's affection from his parents and siblings
12. She is hypersensitive
13. She opposes every word of her husband, his parents, siblings, etc.
14. She wishes to blackmail and intimidate her husband, his parents and siblings to fulfill her unreasonable demands
15. She does not wish to adjust to or with the husband's family or take on any domestic responsibilities.
16. She is suffering from pre-existing mental problems
In Details........
Section 32 (2) says that under the sole testimony of the aggrieved person, the court may conclude that an offence has been committed by the accused.
This means with one word of women, it will empowered her to punish men at her will. This is very dangerous for innocent men. As it is in the Divorce, alimony, rape, and dowry laws are already in favour of women. This law will not allow men to escape from the clutchs of women who would lodge false complaint. All she has to do is, go to police station and shed some crocodile tears. thats all, and husband will be full time member of jail at no cost; SORRY tax payers cost.
Ch.IV, S.17 makes the "right of residence" a powerful tool in the women's hands whether or not she has any title in the household.
An adulterous woman can abuse her husband or in-laws and threaten them of false domestic violence but she cannot be thrown out of the house as per the Act. This is open license to women to harass innocent men. She could even bring her lover to the house and the husband or in-laws can't do anything or stop her. Even husband has no right if she has sex in front of her husband, may may file case for stoping her from enjoying, ist harassment for her.
(Ch.II, S.3) of the Domestic violence Act includes actual abuse or threat of abuse - physical, verbal, emotional or economic.
it means whatever husband do to his wife is wrong, but same if she do, thats ok, Even with hold sex, shout at him, slap, insult, Humiliate
Section 18 allows the magistrate to protect the woman from acts of violence or even "acts that are likely to take place" in the future and can prohibit the respondent from dispossessing the aggrieved person or in any other manner disturbing her possessions, entering the aggrieved person's place of work or any other place that the abused woman frequents....
If women says her husband and in laws stoping her from Bringing her lover home, judge will order husband and his old parents not enter thier own home.
The Act also says that husbands can't pressure wives to watch porn or to have sexual relationship.
Some Indian women says Kissing is PORN, so soon all indian men who watch movies, Watch these movies together in jail.
Ch.III, S4 of the Act says that the information regarding an act or acts of domestic violence does not necessarily have to be lodged by the aggrieved party but by "any person who has reason to believe that" such an act has been or is being committed. Which means that neighbours, social workers, relatives etc. can all take initiative on behalf of the victim
When husband Stop wifes lover entering his home, he can file complaint in behalf of his lover.
Preventing one's wife from taking up a job or forcing her to leave job are also under the purview of the Act.
Only solution is to save Institute of Marriage and Family of india, we should ask all organisations not to appoint women at any cost.
Another flaw in the Act is inclusion of live-in partners or any sexual partner (Ch.I, S.2(a))
This clause give men to make use of this law, if a lover of man come home , his legally wedded wife cann`t do anything she cann`t kick her out. husbands now take advantage of this bill ? its law against women not in her favor
The Act will actually worsen the domestic problems leading to breakdown in marriages as women will be now encouraged to go to courts ,without giving any chance to settle thier differences The Act discourages women to rectify their mistake. The Act not only gives powers without taking any responsibilities to women but also takes away all the rights of men.
it is not only marriage breaker but also whole family spliter, women can file case against any male member of Family, its a chain reaction, one crack in a marriage can ruin husbands other brothers family too. its massive bomb waiting to Explode.
There is ample chance to misuse coz there is no clause of punishsment if misused, just like Dowry law.
Feminist want Domestic Violence not Domestic harmony, thats why there is no word of spouse instead man.
With the help of this law now women can stop Father of her children to meet them, this is total breakdown of Social structure of Indian Society it is best tool for black clad corrupt lawyers and Money minting machinary for police, women organisations and politicians.
Ch.III, S4 of the Act says that the information regarding an act or acts of domestic violence does not necessarily have to be lodged by the aggrieved party but by "any person who has reason to believe that" such an act has been or is being committed. Which means that neighbours, social workers, relatives etc. can all take initiative on behalf of the victim
When husband Stop wifes lover entering his home, he can file complaint in behalf of his lover.
Preventing one's wife from taking up a job or forcing her to leave job are also under the purview of the Act.
Only solution is to save Institute of Marriage and Family of india, we should ask all organisations not to appoint women at any cost.
Another flaw in the Act is inclusion of live-in partners or any sexual partner (Ch.I, S.2(a))
This clause give men to make use of this law, if a lover of man come home , his legally wedded wife cann`t do anything she cann`t kick her out. husbands now take advantage of this bill ? its law against women not in her favor
The Act will actually worsen the domestic problems leading to breakdown in marriages as women will be now encouraged to go to courts ,without giving any chance to settle thier differences The Act discourages women to rectify their mistake. The Act not only gives powers without taking any responsibilities to women but also takes away all the rights of men.
it is not only marriage breaker but also whole family spliter, women can file case against any male member of Family, its a chain reaction, one crack in a marriage can ruin husbands other brothers family too. its massive bomb waiting to Explode.
There is ample chance to misuse coz there is no clause of punishsment if misused, just like Dowry law.
Feminist want Domestic Violence not Domestic harmony, thats why there is no word of spouse instead man.
With the help of this law now women can stop Father of her children to meet them, this is total breakdown of Social structure of Indian Society it is best tool for black clad corrupt lawyers and Money minting machinary for police, women organisations and politicians.
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